Greetings and Salutations Natalie,
I have stumbled upon your sex and relationship advice columns as of this evening, and after reading some of them, I finally decided to muster the courage to send you this message. I am a straight single male, early 40's, who has a fetish for women's feet and legs in pantyhose.
Now mind you, I don't go crazy every time I see a women's legs and feet encased in nylons, be it pantyhose, stocking, tights, or even trouser socks. But I always happen to catch a glance from time to time, in which I immediately become aroused. A few years ago, I had no problems accommodating my fetish, as I've dated and befriended several women who has worn them for me on many occasions... Even if we stayed in and watch DVD movies.
I'm currently finding a woman for a LTR, and not just to engage in my fetish, per se. But so far, I've had not a modicum of luck with this online dating thing. So in the meantime, what advice can you offer for me so I can have a "temporary fulfillment"? Should I pay a prostitute, check out an escort service, place an ad in an alternative dating website, or what?
I'm not looking for a relationship or sex (but I am currently seeking a significant other, as previously implied). Just a friend to be silly and play around with, just as long as she feels safe, respected, and loved. I honestly don't care if I'm giving a foot massage, playing footsies under the table, or kiss the silky toes of a 50 year old woman. Really, I just want to explore this part of me very badly, and it would be wonderful if someone who sincerely shared that passion could be the one there with me. I don't even care if it's just a simple footsie or a nylon foot massage session and that's it. That would be fun. Just a shy, normal guy here. Thanks so much for your time in reading this message. It means a lot to me.
Lonely Pantyhose Devotee